How to Convince Your Parent/Guardian About Your Plans to Go for a Masa Program in Israel.

Family friends of mine didn’t allow their son to play football for years because they thought it was unsafe due to the risk of concussions and its aggressive nature. However, a few years later, I found out he joined his high school football team and was happily playing. When I asked how he changed their minds, it turned out he had created an elaborate PowerPoint presentation, explaining all the research, personal development, and long-term benefits of playing on the team.

In this blog, I will present a similar approach to help you convince your parents/guardians about your plans to join a Masa program in Israel. We understand that this might be a difficult decision due to the ongoing war. However, we aim to help you explain the benefits of coming to Israel now, highlighting the excellent opportunities for your personal and professional growth.

Here’s a guide to help you navigate the conversation and gain their support.

Do Your Research

Before approaching your parent/guardian, gather all the necessary information about your chosen Masa program. Understand the program’s benefits, duration, and how it aligns with your career and/or personal goals. Be prepared to explain how this experience will enhance your skills and bring value to your life once you return.

Highlight Safety Measures

I’d suggest explaining to them the safety measures in place for each fellow on a Masa program. Explain the security protocols, support systems, and how Masa ensures the safety and well-being of its fellows. This can all be found on our Safety and Security page, which is updated with the most recent safety measures in place. I also suggest taking a look at our interactive video we’ve created with our Chief Security Officer.

Show Educational and Career Benefits

Here, you should explain to them how the program will benefit your education, especially if you’re choosing a Masa Academic program. Or, if you’re pursuing a career or volunteering program, for example with the University of Haifa, you can earn college credits and enhance your future prospects and career ambitions. Furthermore, depending on the timing of your program, you will have the opportunity to participate in leadership development days, network with Israel’s top companies at special events, and take advantage of many other enriching opportunities.

Take a Look at our Social Media Channels

Check out our Instagram for testimonials and success stories from current and past fellows. This is a good way to show your parent/guardian that there are already many Masa fellows on the ground currently taking part in a program. Plus, you can show them all the activities we’re constantly up to.

Address Financial Concerns

I understand that going on such a trip can be financially a big undertaking. However, we have scholarships and grants readily available for you. Make sure you check out our website that addresses this concern, here. Before you speak to your parent/guardian, you can also already get in touch with a Masa Representative who can help you figure out which programs might be a right fit for you and help you figure out the cost. Here is also a page to all of Masa’s low cost programs. This will definitely show your parents that you are responsible and are thinking ahead.

Explain Cultural and Personal Growth

Another big plus on coming on a Masa program is that by living in Israel and participating in the program will contribute to your personal growth, cultural understanding, and independence. Emphasize the value of experiencing a different culture firsthand.

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Create a Communication Plan

Assure your parent/guardian that you will stay in regular contact. Believe me, this is important. I have been living in Israel for almost seven years, and it still isn’t easy to be away from my family even after all these years. While you are only coming for a few weeks or months, it’s important for your family to know that you will regularly check-in and share your exciting adventures with them.

Involve Them in the Decision-Making Process

I think it’s also important to include your parents/guardian in your research and decision-making process. Show them the program’s website, brochures, and any other relevant materials. Let them see that you value their input and are making an informed decision together.

Introduce Them to Program Representatives

If you haven’t already done so, arrange a meeting or call with a Masa program representative or alumni. This can provide your parents with firsthand information and answers to any questions they may have.

Stay Patient and Open-Minded

Last but not least, be patient and open to their concerns. Listen to their worries and address them calmly and respectfully. Show that you understand their perspective and are willing to work together to find solutions. Plus, don’t forget that we are also here for you to make your wish to come here a reality!

The Complexities of Interning in Israel with Masa

We are aware that given the current reality, you’re worried about listing your Masa experience in Israel on your resume. However, we’d like to argue that no matter where you go, even after your Masa program ends, it’s crucial for your mental health to work in an inclusive environment that accepts you for who you are. We truly believe that coming on such a program to either volunteer, work, teach, study, etc shows your great character, adaptability, resilience, and global perspective. Therefore, your newfound experiences no matter where you’ll bring them will only be an asset on your next chapter.

Conclusion

We at Masa understand that convincing your parents/guardians to support your decision to join a Masa program in Israel requires clear communication and thorough preparation. I highly recommend highlighting the educational, career, and personal growth benefits, addressing their safety concerns with factual information, and involving them in the decision-making process.

We understand their worries amidst the ongoing war, but with a well-prepared plan and regular communication, you can reassure them of your safety and the value of this experience. This Masa journey will offer you immense personal and professional growth, and we’re here to support you every step of the way in making this dream a reality.